We think it of some consequence to
mention here one rule, which may aid us in determining, whether our
affections, those of the most benevolent kind as well as others, are
properly regulated or not. When our affections to any persons, however
near and dear they may be to us, are found to be so strong at any given
time or on any occasion as to disturb the clearness and precision of the
intellectual action, we may be assured, that such love has become
inordinate, and has some vicious element in it. A number of
considerations go to show this. We may argue, in confirmation
of what has been said, from the nature and operations of that love,
which we are required to exercise towards God. It is the tendency of the
true love of God, which is the same as the pure love of God, always to
accommodate itself to what is right. Rectitude is the ultimate and
unchangeable law of its operation. At this, by a tendency inherent in
its own nature, it always aims, viz., to love rightly, to love just as
it ought
to love, not only the right object, but in the right degree. The right
and wrong of things, the ought and the ought not, is made known to us,
in connection with, and by means of the action of an enlightened moral
sense. The moral sense, by a well known law of our mental constitution,
demands, as the condition of its own correct action, a clear
intellectual perception. The action of the intellect must be
undisturbed. The pure love of God, that is to say, the love which we
exercise towards God, when it is unmixed with any merely human or
selfish element, never causes disturbance in the intellectual action;
but, on the contrary, is highly favorable to the opposite state. Where
such pure affection exists, therefore, the right or rectitude of things
may be expected to be clearly perceived, as well as strongly loved. But
if the love of God, (that unmixed and pure love which alone can be
acceptable to him,) does not disturb the perceptive or intellectual
action, but on the contrary if its very nature requires a clear and calm
perception of things, then it is very obvious, that the love of our
earthly friends, the love of our neighbor, cannot safely be exercised on
other principles, and cannot require less.
— from The Life of Faith, Part 2, Chapter 7.